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There are around 10 days left of spring training. And yesterday that fact finally hit me, and I had a mini panic attack. We've been in Arizona for six months which is a very long time for us to be in one place. Besides visiting Tennessee for Christmas, Matt going to Georgia and a short trip to California we haven't left Arizona during those six months. We've loved it here, but we're both ready to get baseball season going again.
But with that comes the stresses of moving. Plus the stress of we still haven't heard officially where Matt is starting the season.
So no, we still don't know where we're heading. And no we don't have a place to live yet. And no I haven't even started packing yet. People that don't understand the baseball life cannot wrap their heads around that whole we're-moving-in-two-weeks-but-have-no-idea-where-we're-going-to-be-moving thing.
It is difficult, but we've learned to just go with it. I've called the apartment we stayed at in Tulsa, and they will have units available. And I've called a couple places in Oklahoma City that will have units available.
Last spring training, Matt already knew where he was going by this point. His first spring training (2016) he didn't find out where he was going until two days before camp was over. I don't have a very good reason to share as to why they wait so long or when they tell the guys. The Dodgers have several new people in place so I think they're trying to get all the marbles in place if ya know what I mean. Also there are a ton of guys in camp so they're going to be making a lot of releases soon. They have to evaluate the newer guys and all of those things. And I know there are a lot of guys to assign to teams but for guys like Matt they know where they're going to send them so I wish they would just confirm.
So for now, I'm trying to get as much in the works as possible for Tulsa and Oklahoma City for when we do know. And trying to figure out if we want to get a small U-Haul and take the little furniture we have with us. Just the usual.
Matt was sent back to minor league camp a little over a week ago. He has a minor injury (muscle strain) that has kept him from playing games. But the past two days he's played defense and been swinging off the tee. Everything should be all good; just taking it slow. I gave his stats while at BLC at the end of this post.
So just keep Matt in your prayers that he's 100% by the end of camp, and pray for my sanity (and all the other baseball families) as we wait to get our team assignment and move out and in! Stay tuned for the madness coming!
Danny Ash and Dustin Molleken grew up in Regina, Saskatchewan, Canada. The two went to different schools, knew each other growing up but their paths didn’t cross.
Dustin went on to be drafted out of high school. Danny went on to play college basketball for five years of eligibility and earn her teaching degree.
After graduating, Danny landed her dream job teaching health and French at her high school which is how she and Dustin ended up being linked together. “I didn’t realize I was teaching Dustin’s cousins until one day he came up to me and told me he really needed to talk to me about something,” Danny said. “He found me at lunch and asked me if I was seeing anyone. I laughed in his face because I was like this 15-year-old boy is asking me out. He quickly said no, no, no, I have a cousin, and he thinks you’re really good looking, and he wants to asks you out. He told me it was Dustin, and I got Dustin’s number from him.”
Dustin and Danny went on a couple of dates before Dustin went to Panama to play for the Canadian team during the off season. “When he left for Panama, I was thinking well that was fun,” Danny said. “While he was there, we talked every single day and hung out before the next season. Since we were older when we met, things got serious pretty quickly. We did distance the next (2011) season.”
During the summer of the 2012 season, Dustin signed to play in Japan. Danny traveled to Japan for about a month before starting the school year. For the 2013 season, Dustin signed to play with Japan again. Danny had to make a decision. “I decided to resign from my teaching job and travel with Dustin to Japan,” Danny said. “We decided at that time our relationship was the most important thing, and we knew we couldn’t focus on that across the world from each other.”
Carolina Carmichael moved from Illinois to Tennessee for a track and field scholarship at the University of Memphis.
Memphis gave her two life changing things: a stellar pole vaulting career and her husband.
Carolina was a freshman, and Memphis native Sam Moll was a junior pitcher for Memphis. The two first met in April 2013. “My best friend was dating a baseball player which is how I met Sam,” Carolina said. “She told me ‘yeah, Sam is stud’, but I knew nothing about baseball, so I really wasn’t impressed.”
Carolina and Sam spent one week together getting to know each other before Carolina headed back to Illinois for summer break. “We had mentioned to people that we were just talking,” Carolina said. “So it got kind of awkward because a few days after I got home he texted me and told me he was just drafted in third round. I was like what, what does that even mean.”
Carolina’s dad played college baseball and played a stint in the minor leagues. “I went to my dad and told him this guy I was talking to was just drafted in the third round and asked him if that was good,” Carolina said. “My dad thought I was crazy for being kind of clueless and explained the process to me a little bit then he told me I needed to keep talking to this guy and hang on to him.”
Sam was sent to the Rockies short season team after being drafted, and Carolina quickly learned the minor league life. “We had a lot of Skype time,” Carolina said. “It was so weird because I wasn’t going to fly across the country to visit this guy I had barely met, but we talked every single day. I listened to all the games. I guess we used the distance to really get to know each other.”
Sam is from Memphis. His family still lives there. So for the offseason, Sam was back in Memphis and Carolina was back too for the school year. “Luckily, his home was Memphis because I’m not sure how all of this would have worked if we both weren’t in Memphis during the offseason,” Carolina said. “The same night he got back from season he came over to my place, and we were like oh hey so good to see you...”
That offseason Carolina and Sam spent every day together. “He was coming to all my indoor meets, and he met my parents,” Carolina said. “Before he left for the 2014 season, we finally had the like ok-we’re-doing-this-you’re-my-boyfriend conversation.”
If you guys follow the blog on Instagram (@dreamsandseams_), you saw my first taste of big league camp fails on Feb. 20.
So those instances made me think I should just go ahead and start a running blog of my big league camp struggles and lessons.
1) On Feb. 20, the Dodgers did live batting practice for the first time. (Live batting practice is where the pitchers throw to hitters in a game like situation.) I decided I wanted to go see Matt at camp before the actual games start. He sends me the schedule to let me know what field he will be on. I get to Camelback. After walking around trying to figure out how to get to field three, I asked an usher how to get to field three. He tells me to keep walking around the path I get to the field. So I keep walking around — keep in mind I'm watching field three from a far and it is literally the only field in the complex you can't get to. I get around to the minor league side and ask that usher how I get to field three. He says I can't unless I have a wristband. I then proceed to ask what a wristband does. He says members of players family get wristbands that lets them go freely throughout the complex. The players have to get the wristbands each day for the member of the family. OHHH that's new to me and to Matt. Lesson number one, get a family wristband. Otherwise you'll be creep-ily watching from the space in the outfield fence...oh and you missed live batting practice.
2) Trying to pick Matt up is a struggle. This only happened once, and I haven't went to pick him up again. The entrance into the big league player parking lot is fenced from the top of the regular parking lot down to the gate that enters the player parking lot. The fence is there to keep the fans out and allow a clear path for the players, personnel, etc. to come in and out. Anyway, I go to pick up Matt, and the attendant at the start of the path wouldn't let me in because I wasn't on the list. And I even dropped him off that morning. Granted it was a new guy at the start, and we got it worked out but I was still just laughing at how different this process was than what I'm used to on the minor league side.
*I should also say I am VERY thankful for the security and protocols because it keeps Matt safe. But I'm just out here learning.*
From the Stands is a series where WAGS share their journeys in baseball.
Stephanie was a senior at the University of Miami, and Harold Martinez was a sophomore third baseman at UM when they met.
Stephanie explains the two met through a group of friends after…a baseball game, of course.
“We didn’t see each other for a little bit,” Stephanie said. “We reconnected through friends again, got to know each other and have been together ever since.”
Harold was drafted by the Phillies in the second round of the 2011 draft after his junior season. “At the end of a dream season Harold’s sophomore year, he got hurt and never really felt the same during his junior season,” Stephanie said. “So, going into the draft we weren’t really sure what was going to happen. When the Phillies reached out in the second round, we were really surprised but excited and grateful. And then began the craziness of minor league baseball.”
Following the 2011 season, Stephanie and Harold got engaged. The following offseason the two were married — Nov. 2012.
In 2013, Harold started the season in High-A. “High-A was interesting. He could never seem to get out of there for different reasons,” Stephanie said. “I’ll never forget when I left a few days before spring training ended, and they still hadn’t posted the team assignments. Everyone had been talking to him like he was going to AA. We knew you couldn’t really plan on anything in this career, but then he called me and told me he was going back to Clearwater (High-A) for the third time. It was really frustrating.”
Harold faced several injuries and other setbacks. Stephanie says they realize how those hard times really made them stronger in their relationship and in their relationship with God.
“Without our relationship with God, it would have been impossible to make it through everything.”
Matt & Jesica Beaty
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